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‘Healthy divas & divos’ good for social media culture too

30-Apr-13

They’re “healthy divas,” not drama queens, people. Two very different things, the Wall Street Journal points out. The distinction and the reported emergence of this positive kind of diva in media culture might be a positive for kids who, when they have time for entertainment, lean toward the celebrity-watch variety – not to mention for [...]

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Bullying: How an ‘authoritative’ parenting style can help

19-Apr-13

When my friend and colleague Jason Brand, a Berkeley, Calif.-based family therapist, points an article out to me, I pay attention. He and I were discussing resilience as a protective factor in children’s use of social media, and Jason pointed out an article in Scientific American by psychologist Abigail Baird at Vassar College. She wrote [...]

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Invaluable social literacy lessons from an anti-bullying conference

04-Mar-13

This is genuine progress. My thanks to Lisa Jones at the University of New Hampshire for pointing me to the recent Beyond Bullying Summit‘s “top three takeaways.” Notably, they’re all about social literacy: “SEL [social-emotional learning] is not adding to your plate. It is the plate,” said clinical psychology Ed Dunkelblau, director of the Institute [...]

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Good move: Game company takes down cruel ad campaign

07-Dec-12

This was good to see: What looked like a truly anti-social media company, game developer Square Enix, saw irresponsibility for what it was and quickly reversed a stupid marketing decision. I’d like to take it as a sign that – in this very social media environment where users are co-producers with the providers of their [...]

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What is bullying & what can be done about it: Lit review

30-Oct-12

What a project and what a service to anybody trying to get a handle on a long-standing social problem! I’m referring to the recently released “Bullying in a Networked Era: A Literature Review” of more than 150 surveys, articles and other references from the Berkman Center for Internet & Society at Harvard University, the latest [...]

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‘Compassion mobs’ & other digital-age nonviolence stands

24-Oct-12

You’ve probably heard the phrase “kill ‘em with kindness” for disarming detractors, well in social media it’s more like swamping – flooding – public, sometimes collective, cruelty with kindness, acceptance, respect, etc. That was a powerful tactic used by students I wrote about in Part 1 of this series, but it has been practiced to [...]

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‘Only rarely’ is cyberbullying sole factor in teen suicide: Study”

21-Oct-12

A just-released study from the American Academy of Pediatrics found that cyberbullying is “only rarely the sole factor identified in teen suicides.” The study’s author, John LeBlanc, MD, was quoted in the press release as saying that “cyberbullying is a factor in some suicides, but almost always there are other factors such as mental illness [...]

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Bullying: Reasons why kids don’t tell their parents

06-Oct-12

This article was originally published June 11, 2012, then my service’s server crashed, losing months of data. So reposting 10/2/12. A lot of adults wonder why kids don’t often tell a parent or “trusted adult” they’re experience bullying, and what Aaron Cheese, 15, told his mom, finally, after years of dealing with it in silence, [...]

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One of the best back-to-school messages I’ve seen

12-Sep-12

Well, two great back-to-school messages, actually. I’ll get to the one from two organizations in a minute. First, one from a parent: At a time when so many families are feeling swamped with stuff added to schedules and school supplies lists – and that’s on top of run-of-the-mill, everyday parental pressures that probably include worries [...]

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From ‘Born This Way’ to Move This Way: A new foundation

08-Sep-12

This article marking an important beginning was originally published March 2, 2012, then my service’s server crashed with no backup(!). So I’m reposting this 9/8/12. Surrounded by some of the best thinkers and researchers in the bullying prevention, social media, and youth empowerment fields, Wednesday (2/29) I got to watch “Born This Way” become “Move [...]

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