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August 18, 2006
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Unsupervised online teens & other myths: New research
There are a lot of smart parents (and online teens) out there, research is showing. The former are clearly transferring their parenting skills and policies into cyberspace, and the latter - teenagers - seem to be fine with that. "More than 70% of the adolescents said they'd feel comfortable having their parents look at their MySpace page," a recent survey of MySpacers and their parents in Los Angeles found (see No. 2 below).
- 'Look Inside the Entertainment Life of 12-to-24-Year-Olds'
In this just-released study by Los Angeles Times/Bloomberg, we find it's simply not true that kids "run rampant on the Internet" unsupervised by clueless parents, as so many have somehow come to believe. The reality is....
- Only 26% of teen computer users "work and surf unsupervised, the survey found.
- Among those who reported restrictions nearly two-thirds said they lived with a ban on downloading music, movies and/or mature content"; nearly 60% can't surf or IM while doing homework; more than 80% aren't allowed to visit social-networking sites "and/or were not allowed to IM with certain people"; 45% have time limits on their computer use and "a similar proportion said they could use the computer only under supervision or in a shared family location."
- 31% of 12-to-17-year-olds say "their parents check their social-networking sites ... and what is put on personal sites."
As for teen social networking overall, you might find this figure surprisingly low, given all the media coverage: The survey found that 29% maintain a MySpace profile; 46% said "yes" to "I go on MySpace or other social-networking sites" (54% said "no").
Besides the profile of 14-year-old Julia Schwartz (see last week's issue), the rest of the L.A. Times's very readable 5-part series about this research can be found at "Tracking the MySpace Generation," with a quick summary in the Arizona Republic.
- Parents, 'It's Time to Create Your Own MySpace Page'
That's the word from California State University psychology professor Larry Rosen following his study, "Adolescents in MySpace: Identity Formation, Friendship and Sexual Predators." It's the next step for parents in the process of getting as engaged in their kids' online social lives as they are in their offline socializing.
In "Memo to All Parents of Adolescents," he writes: "You absolutely need to ask your child to show you his/her MySpace page." He adds, "When I asked parents if they did this, 38% said they had never done so (nor had they talked with their children about their MySpace use), another 14% said they almost never checked it, and 16% stated they only glanced at it every few months. Only one-third of the parents actually checked their teen's MySpace page on a regular basis."
And yet, as I mentioned in the intro, Prof. Rosen found that over two-thirds of teens are comfortable with having their parents see their profiles. The other 30% could easily go into stealth mode and set up a page at dozens of social-networking sites, which makes parent-child communication even more important.
"It is critical to ask your children [to show you their pages] to see how they represent themselves in their virtual world." He suggests that parents read profile comments, see who's on their Top 8 friends list, look at their photos and information they're sharing, and establish their own profiles - not to spy on their kids (which "will just make them more likely to mistrust you and be unwilling to talk with you"), but so parents have "the knowledge and experience to talk intelligently with their teen about MySpace." That's the key.
The study found that "only 17% of parents had created their own MySpace page," even though parents who had one...
- Were more likely to have seen their child's MySpace profile.
- Were more likely to have seen the photos on the profile.
- Looked at their child's page often.
- Were more likely to be sure of how much time their child spent on MySpace.
- Were less concerned about sexual predators on MySpace.
- Knew whether their child had given out personal information.
- "Were more likely to feel that sexual predators were rare on MySpace."
"Although the sample in this study is small and was not collected randomly," Professor Rosen writes (the sample was 267 pairs of parents and teens in the Los Angeles area found by his students at Cal State), "the results are clear: Parents who had a MySpace presence were more actively involved in their teen's MySpace activity and had a more realistic view about their teen's MySpace usage." I would say there's no better kid-safety measure on the social Web - social networkers (including parents) looking out for each other on their favorite network.
Readers, I'd love to hear from you about parent-child experiences with social networking at your house. Email me anytime, or - even better - share them at our forum, BlogSafety.com.
* * * *Web News Briefs
- Teen 'predators' arrested at school
This story in the Nashville area is about the real "predators" of the social networks, if they could be called that. According to the Maryville (Tenn.) Daily Times, two Nashville boys (15 and 17) showed up at the high school of two girls they'd "met" online and were too young even to know that it would've been a good idea not to tell the police they were 18+. They were both charged with criminal trespassing, the 17-year-old also with criminal impersonation, and both were taken to a juvenile detention center, where they were later "released to the custody of their parents," with future court hearings in store. An officer on the case "said he was unsure how the [Maryville High School] students met the two Nashville teens on the Internet, but authorities suspect it was through a social networking Web site or through instant messaging. He said the girls may have also talked to the boys by phone." Research about sexual solicitations of online teens has shown for years that many, probably most, of the solicitations came from other teens. And the latest research (see last week's issue) shows that - while sexual solicitations are down overall despite the popularity of social networking - peer harassment among tweens and teens is up. Another thing we've seen over the past year is that the actual exploitation of teen social networkers (who agreed online to meet with "predators" offline) was consensual. In the Nashville case, two teen boys may well have taken the fall for a mutual arrangement made by both boys and girls, possibly resulting in a different definition of victimization.
- Anybody outing anyone...
...about anything, anytime. That may sound a bit elliptic, but it describes what people can do with digital photography, and to parents and many other people it could be a little scary. It has got to be scary to paparazzi, anyway, because tabloids and other publications are now paying anyone with a camera phone for spontaneously snapped photos of celebrities, as the New York Times points out. The scary part for parents and educators is that celebrities certainly aren't the only subjects. Anyone can not only be a photographer and publisher, but also a subject - peers, parents, teachers, etc. That's fine when intentions are good, but if someone has it in for a peer or an adult, it's getting very easy to snap and upload photos that victimize the latter. Sometimes embarrassing or compromising photos and videos are taken in fun or friendship but the friendship goes bad, sometimes purely maliciously. Not only do we need to require that our kids and students ask permission to upload photos and footage of others, we need substantive home and school policies about using images of others maliciously, including in blogs and profiles that impersonate them (fake pages made to look like theirs). Someone recently posted in BlogSafety.com a link to California TV personality Josh Kornbluth's account of being victimized by someone who put an impersonating profile of him on MySpace. Almost immediately after he got it deleted, another one popped up.
This is the nearly uncontrollable nature of Web 2.0, where there are hundreds upon hundreds of free sites where people can play dirty tricks against schoolmates or anyone against whom they might have the slightest beef, and there is very, very little all these sites can do about it except be quick to detect and delete impersonating or otherwise malicious profiles, and some - like MySpace - are clearly working on that. But as I posted in our forum, the only real, lasting, solution in the kid part of the harassment spectrum is the tough one: to work with the kids involved and maybe fellow parents.
- 'Minimes' in mini rooms at Cyworld
- Social Web's new headache
Worms have a new way into your house. Social networking is getting so popular (among adults as well as teens) that all those nasty virus and worm writers out there are starting to take advantage of it. Social sites - especially the big ones like MySpace, YouTube, Xanga, etc. - are the next wave for malware, the UK's VNUNET reports, citing research by computer security company ScanSafe. "One in 600 profile pages on social networking sites hosts some form of malware, according to an analysis of more than five billion web requests in July." And just what is that malware? Most of what ScanSafe identified was "spyware and adware, ranging from more benign programs that track usage to difficult-to-remove spyware that can redirect a browser." And even though everybody assumes this is just a teenager thing (which is certainly the concern of family PC owners), it may be comforting to know the malware issue is becoming a problem in the workplace too. Social networks now account for about 1% of all Web use at work, ScanSafe found.
- Virtual worlds, real crimes
Where there is life, there is crime, it seems - even in the lives of avatars and game characters in the virtual worlds of online games. Called MMORPGs, for massively multiplayer online role-playing games, these games' players can be robbed just as we real-world folk can be. What happens is, players' game characters are robbed of their virtual property and money, which is then sold for real money "that can be used to buy new weapons, magic spells or other trappings to advance within the game," Reuters reports. "Using software designed to infiltrate a computer system, hackers steal account information for users of MMO games and then sell off virtual gold, weapons and other items for real money." Reuters adds that Microsoft warned game developers of this problem so they can build in more protections. For more on this, see "Virtual real estate mogul" and "Games' shadow economy."
- Good gaming
A videogame conference is happening in Baltimore next month, and parents will be glad to note that it's all about the upside of games. "Among the two dozen or more games scheduled to be on display at the Games for Health Conference," USATODAY reports, "are Re-Mission, a game that gives cancer patients a chance to blast malignant cells; Food Force, about the United Nations' struggles in delivering food to needy parts of the world; and Peacemaker, a game about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict." Good games are big business, too, USATODAY points out. For example, Konami has sold more than 4 million copies of its Dance Dance Revolution (that some school P.E. departments are using), and Nintendo has sold more than 4 million copies of Brain Age: Train Your Brain in Minutes a Day.
- Dell laptops recall
Some critics are saying, "It's about time." Dell is recalling more than 4 million laptop batteries in "the largest electronics-related recall involving the Consumer Products Safety Commission," CBS News reports. The batteries, which were made by Sony, are being recalled because they can burst into flame. Affected laptops include "Dell's Latitude, Inspiron, XPS and precision mobile workstation notebooks," according to CBS, but it's a good idea not to leave any laptop for long periods of time on upholstered chairs and other places where they can overheat. The New York Times printed a photo of a fairly extreme example of what can happen. For recall details, go to DellBatteryProgram.com.
- For game 'auteurs'
Microsoft's news about giving anyone access to its game authoring tools is good news for parents of "hard-core gamers." It just may be a career-development tool too. "Microsoft is trying to turn hard-core gamers into Xbox programmers," CNET reports. Expected to be available for free later this month in beta form, the software will make it easier for "college students, hobbyists and others create their own games for the Xbox 360 console, for a Windows PC or both," CNET adds (eventually it'll cost $99). A San Jose Mercury News blog calls this "the democratization of videogame development" and reports that Microsoft is calling it "the YouTube of videogames." YouTube promotes the clips of zillions of amateur videographers (often called Web 2.0's "auteurs"), just as MySpace promotes the tunes of zillions of indie bands. In related news, now there's a social network for game designers: Nightlife Interactive, a videogame advertising company, "has launched its own social network site to aid in the research, development, and marketing of its various game offers," according to the company's press release.
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Anne Collier, Editor
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