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Dealing with the nasties online

August 25, 2014 By Anne Leave a Comment

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Pondering positive ways to deal with online negativity seems to be a trend – maybe even a blooming social norm! Because, in response to social cruelty like the recent tragic trolling of Robin Williams's daughter Zelda Williams, other people sympathized, defended her and started thinking of ways to counteract cruelty like that. Negativity grabs our attention more than positivity, New York Times … [Read more...] about Dealing with the nasties online

Filed Under: bullying, Risk & Safety, Social Media Tagged With: harassment, negativity, Nicole Sullivan, positivity, psychology, social cruelty, social norms, trolling

Beginning of the end of #purge, revenge porn or social cruelty?

July 27, 2014 By Anne 1 Comment

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We so want to believe it: that the fact that Twitter and Instagram are actively taking down #purge-related accounts signals "the tipping point of this particular phenomenon – and its end has begun," as professor, author and cyberbullying expert Sameer Hinduja writes in an informative blog post. It's very possible we're seeing the tipping point of this week's hot Hollywood premiere-inspired … [Read more...] about Beginning of the end of #purge, revenge porn or social cruelty?

Filed Under: Risk & Safety, victimization Tagged With: #purge, bullying, Eric Goldman, Facebook, Instagram, resilience, revenge porn, Sameer Hinduja, social cruelty, social norms, The Purge: Anarchy, twitter, whack-a-mole

A courageous target turned upstander

November 13, 2013 By Anne Leave a Comment

Read Caitlin Seida's story for a great example of resilience and how to be an upstander online. Caitlin had publicly posted an unflattering Halloween photo of herself, forgetting to make it private, and the photo – along with plenty of nasty comments – went viral. What started out to be a fun Halloween became a nightmare. "I don’t generally view my body size as positive or negative – it simply … [Read more...] about A courageous target turned upstander

Filed Under: bullying, cyberbullying, Risk & Safety Tagged With: bystander, Caitlin Seida, harassment, resilience, social cruelty, upstander

Hurting others hurts us: Study

June 18, 2013 By Anne 1 Comment

Although the victim is usually the focus in discussions about the impacts of social cruelty, everybody involved in it feels some pain or distress, research shows. Two recent studies offer fresh insights into the impacts on bystanders, both those who witness cruel behavior and those who feel compelled to participate. First the latter, from the University of Rochester. "When people bend to … [Read more...] about Hurting others hurts us: Study

Filed Under: bullying, cyberbullying, Literacy & Citizenship, Risk & Safety Tagged With: Brunel University, bullying, cyberbullying, Ian Rivers, ostracism, school, SEL, social cruelty, social literacy, social-emotional learning, University of Rochester

Teens, social media & trolls: Toxic mix

November 1, 2012 By Anne 2 Comments

This is and isn't about technology. Mostly isn't. But digital media allow for and expose a dangerous blend of two very different aspects of humanness, one destructive, the latter normative: social cruelty and teenage vulnerability (a lot of focus recently having been on the female variety). The cruelty, the extreme version called trolling – which feeds on outrage and weaponizes cultural … [Read more...] about Teens, social media & trolls: Toxic mix

Filed Under: adolescent development, child development, kids, Research, Social Media, teens, Youth Tagged With: adolescent development, child development, Elizabeth Englander, Emily Heist Moss, Facebook, Kris Gowen, reddit, social cruelty, Social Media, teens

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Our (DIGITAL) PARENTING BASICS: Safety + Social
NAMLE, the National Association for Media Literacy Education
CASEL.org & the 5 core social-emotional competencies of SEL
Center for Democracy & Technology
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Childnet International
Committee for Children
Congressional Internet Caucus Academy
ConnectSafely.org
Control Shift: a pivotal book for Internet safety
Crimes Against Children Research Center
Crisis Textline
Cyber Civil Rights Initiative's Revenge Porn Crisis Line
Cyberwise.org
danah boyd's blog and book about networked youth
Disconnected, Carrie James's book on digital ethics
FOSI.org's Good Digital Parenting
The research of Global Kids Online
The Good Project at Harvard's School of Education
If you watch nothing else: "Parenting in a Digital Age" TED Talk by Prof. Sonia Livingstone
The International Bullying Prevention Association
Let Grow Foundation
Making Caring Common
Raising Digital Natives, author Devorah Heitner's site
Renee Hobbs at the Media Education Lab
MediaSmarts.ca
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Report of the Aspen Task Force on Learning & the Internet and our guide to Creating Trusted Learning Environments
The Ruler Approach to social-emotional learning (Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence)
Sources of Strength
"Young & Online: Perspectives on life in a digital age" from young people in 26 countries (via UNICEF)
"Youth Safety on a Living Internet": 2010 report of the Online Safety & Technology Working Group (and my post about it)

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